What is it about lingerie that men and women find so alluring?
Is it the bare skin? Is it the leather or lace or lycra? Is it
the promise of what is to come? Is it the tease?
Try an experiment, take 3 images of the same woman, image A she
is dressed in blue jeans and a t-shirt, image B she is wearing
nothing at all, and image C she is wearing A bustier, garter
belt, thong, and fishnet hose. Put the three images in front of
a man, and ask him to pick out the sexiest image. You may think
he would pick the nude image. I'm sure he will give it a good
look over, but when he considers it, he will, more often than
not, pick image C.
We believe it has to do with what I call M.E.T. mystery,
excitement, and tease. Image A has a normal appearance plenty of
mystery, but, no excitement, and very little tease. Image B has
plenty of excitement, very little mystery and almost no tease.
While Image C has it all. Tease, just enough skin showing to get
your attention. Excitement, sure, half dressed is a promise of
what is to come. Mystery, oh yeah! Just enough covered to make
the mind wonder.
So, lingerie is a great way to provide M.E.T. Why are strippers
making money? Because they have used M.E.T. since they started.
And the good strippers know how to use M.E.T. well. The question
then becomes, are you using M.E.T.? Today's club-wear is so sexy
because it provides M.E.T.. Back in the 60's mini-skirts became
all the rage because of M.E.T.. Today it is low hip pants with
the thong showing in the back. Who knows what the future will
bring.
Throughout time lingerie has continued to be sexy. Lingerie has
always used M.E.T.. Have you M.E.T. your guy? If you are one of
those people that think "Why wear lingerie? I'm just going to
take it off in 5 minutes." The ladies that have discovered
lingerie, have discovered just how excited they can get their
man using M.E.T.. Now granted my perspective has a lot to do
with my profession, I sell lingerie, costumes, club-wear, and
hosiery. Why is a straight guy selling lingerie anyway? Because
my gal M.E.T.. me.
I know the power of mystery, excitement, and tease. I have
experienced it. You should too.
